REFLECTIONS ON LIFE
SEPTEMBER 2017
REFLECTIONS ON HOME IN COLUMBIA
I begin this message with a stronger than usual clear and deep
realization that everything, absolutely everything, is connected in our
universe.
This year we have been commemorating the 50h anniversary of Jim
Rouse’s new town of Columbia
with numerous gatherings, performances, retrospectives and perspectives. Films have been
produced and books published. I have
previously written about the books. This month the films were shown – one paid
for by voluntary contributions from members of the Howard County Citizens
Association and produced by Richard Krantz, a Columbia
resident who also produced a film for Columbia ’s
20th anniversary. The other was produced
by Howard Hughes Corporation and featured various builders of Columbia ’s structures – residential and
commercial. I viewed both films and
learned from each of them. Lloyd and I
were interviewed for the Krantz film, which, in addition to featuring Columbia ’s gems, also
shines a light on potential pitfalls that require our attention, such as becoming
an elite community affordable only to those in the upper middle class and
above. May each and every one of us never forget Rouse’s words: “a place where
the CEO and the janitor can live in the same neighborhood”. You can view this
film entitled “Columbia at 50” by going to
YouTube and looking for “HCCA Presents: Columbia
at 50—A Bridge to the Future.”
Since the unveiling of these two films, both Howard Hughes Corp.
and Howard County government have made know their
interests in being selected as the next home for Amazon.
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From the window above the headboard of our bed some gaps have
appeared in the virtually solid green formed by the maple leaves. Through it we can catch glimpses of the stars
and moon at night and the sky, blue or gray, in the morning.
Going about our day we see a growing carpet of leaves beneath
the tree. I can remember so clearly
rolling around in piles of such leaves, sometimes being completely covered by
them, in my childhood Baltimore
neighborhood
Although some of our most plentiful bird species that feed on
insects and nectar have migrated, the blue heron is in its prime time and
visible from our windows and decks by the ponds alongside and behind our
home. Sometimes one of these majestic
creatures will stand as still as a statue for up to an hour before spotting its
prey in one of the ponds and darting so quickly as to be nearly invisible. The
fully-grown cattails and other growth around the ponds provide perfect
camouflage for this fish predator. What a great example of patience. The milkweed plants around these ponds are
now dried out and virtually devoid of monarchs.
The hummingbird feeders outside our kitchen, dining room, and bedroom windows
are cleaned and packed away for the winter.
On several September evenings, Lloyd and I have enjoyed dinner
at outdoor Clyde ’s in the lakeside
pavilion. We love the now virtually
constant flow of walkers, runners, and bikers around Lake Kittamaqundi . We eat dinner earlier than usual on those
evenings in order to get a seat with a good view of the lake. Sometimes, before
getting settled at a table, we join other walkers in a mile+ stroll around the
lake. At about 6pm one recent warm
evening, having placed our order with the waiter, we heard the unmistakable
sound of a gaggle of geese heading in for a landing on the lake. After swimming
around for about half an hour, they took off in a perfect V formation.
Following several swoops and swirls, they headed up higher in the sky, still in
perfect formation though with greater spaces in between.
At times like these we ask each other what would be our
impression if we came upon this magical place for the first time on our
travels. Thrilled, enchanted,
grateful. Just as it is.
REFLECTIONS ON ZACH
In several of my earlier monthly Reflections I have written
about the beautiful walks Zach and I took along the beach in North Carolina on our family summer
vacations. I also described the way he
explained his deep respect and admiration for Muhammad Ali as a strong human
being willing to suffer being banned from professional boxing because of his
public opposition to the Viet Nam War.
Anyone who has watched Ken Burns’ recent documentary about this war may
respect Ali even more today for his courageous stance. Zach would demonstrate
Ali’s style on the beach for me, accompanying this great show with a recitation
of some of his poetry: “Float like a butterfly.
Sting like a bee.” The Washington Post’s recent book review of “Ali--A Life” says it like this: “Ali’ stirs together the sweet and the spicy,
the gifts and the failings, the charm and the rage, the grace and the greed,
the pride and the ego. Together, they
made Ali the transcendent athlete of his age.”
I am going to ask Lloyd to order this volume for us. Zach, my first and wisest teacher and on the
subject of Ali, will be with me as I read it.
THE WASHINGTON
POST October 1, 2017
“How Ali transformed the worlds of sports and race”
Zach attended the University
of Maryland in College Park for one semester. His brain cancer re-emerged during winter
break and he never returned as a student, although he continued his role as
assistant basketball coach. We now have
two grandkids attending the University in College
Park – one a sophomore and one a junior. They loving visiting the locker room in the
basketball center on campus where the walls are adorned with Zaching
paraphernalia and photos
REFLECTIONS ON BALTIMORE ,
MY HOMETOWN
Both of my parents were born and raised in Baltimore .
As young adults they were also engaged there. My dad gave my mom a silver ring embedded all
around with small diamonds. I never
recall seeing my mom without that ring on her left finger until not long before
she died at the age of 94. While she was
still quite aware, she gave me and my two sisters – Martha and Mary – a piece
of her small collection of jewelry.
Mary, nine years older than I, was the recipient of that ring.
Recently Lloyd and I met up with Mary and her daughter, also
Mary, for lunch at Clyde ’s. After our meal, while still at the table, my
sister removed that most precious ring from her finger and handed it to me
saying “I want to give this to you while I am still alive. This ring embedded in small diamonds has been
on my little left finger since, where it will remain there for the rest of my
life. I love that this beautiful family
experience took place overlooking Lake
Kittamaqundi .
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I recently went for a ride through Edmondson
Village and Edmondson Ave. neighborhoods of West Baltimore with my friend, Mary Lou, who had been a
frequent playmate of mine when we lived very near each other during two of our
elementary school years. About 25 years
ago we bumped into each other several times in Howard County
where we had each moved with our families.
She worked as a nurse in the Howard County Health Department when I held
elected office. Then about a year ago we arranged to reminisce over coffee and
a bagel. My daughter, Chris, Zach and
Julia’s mom, happened into the shop and got to meet my childhood friend. I
occasionally take a ride alone through those areas of Baltimore .
Sometimes Lloyd goes with me. I asked Mary Lou whether she would like to
do that with me sometime. This month we
finally took that drive. We started at Edmondson Village on Edmondson Ave. (Route 40). Although all the names had changed, we
recognized all of the stores we, occasionally with our moms, had
frequented. Hochchild Kohn’s, at that
time a large department store with a “notions” department where my mom
occasionally sent me for thread, snaps, hooks and eyes; Arundel ice cream shop;
Tommy Tucker’s Five and Dime (which I had never remembered when I had
previously driven through by myself, and on the corner, Wehland’s Drugstore
with a long fountain counter and high stools serving ice cream sodas among
other delights. Then we went across the
street to the movie theater that had a bowling alley on a lower level; Hess
Shoes with live monkeys in the window and x-ray machines to detect whether the
potential purchase of a pair shoes was a good fit (we now understand how
healthy that was for us!)
Although I have driven
through these places more then a few times, it was a totally different and
moving experience to share this visit with someone who had lived there at the
same time as I. So much fun and joy, mingled with some wistfulness.
We proceeded to drive behind “the Village” to the local roads
where we had played with friends – Rokeby
Road , Flowerton
Road , and eventually Walnut Avenue and Side Hill Road where we respectively
lived. We recalled roller-skating with
our skate keys tied around our necks, sitting on the steps of our homes and
those of other kids in the hood exchanging “trading cards” with pictures of
mountains, flowers, or horses and other animals. Mary Lou recalled playing Monopoly on the
living room floor of my house where I lived, single family shingled with a
large wrap around wooden porch. She also clearly recalled climbing a tree in
our back yard. I had forgotten this
tree, a large Chinese red maple, which I had loved because it was so easy to
climb. At approximately seven years old,
I would sometimes climb that tree and sit in the crook of its branches for half
an hour or so, quietly contemplating I now know not what.
My mother and father and my sister, Mary, lived there until she
started residential nursing school when I was eight years old. Three years
earlier my other older sister, Martha, had moved out to enter the novitiate of
a Pennsylvania
motherhouse for nuns of the Immaculate Heart of Mary order.
After Mary Lou and I had driven through our immediate
neighborhood several times, we headed to Wildwood Parkway off of Edmondson Avenue
past an apartment where I had lived with my mom when I was in high school. Then
we made our way back to Edmondson
Ave. and my parish church, Saint Bernadine’s and
the parochial school I attended for grades 1 through 8. Mary Lou and her parents attended St.
Williams Catholic Church a little further west on Edmondson Ave.
We parked the car and walked toward the large grey stone church
to see if it was open. Two guys sitting on a stonewall surrounding the church
said they didn’t know, and then another guy appeared with a set of keys on a
big ring and asked if we would like to go in.
We said yes and thanked him. He
walked around to the sanctuary at the front of the church and up the granite
stairs. We followed. After unlocking the doors and letting us in,
he flipped several switches and turned on all the lights. We checked the marble steps where I so
frequently received Holy Communion and checked out the carved wooded cl set
where I had made my first confession.
This Edmondson
Avenue area of West Baltimore
has developed into a place much more and way beyond my childhood
community. I now know through reading
“The Beautiful Struggle” by Ta-Nehisi Coates, that he too lived near this
area. The map in the front of his book
shows Leakin Park right down the street where I grew
up and where I played, at times by myself.
Roughly fifty years after I played in that beautiful large park,
Ta-Nehisi described it as “the place where the bodies were buried.” Where is
the justice in my having had such good and fond memories and he having haunted
ones? I know. There is none.
Ta-Nehisi has written other books, among them “Between the World
and Me,” about which Toni Morrison has said
“This is required reading.” I
would be so brave as to add “particularly right now.”
The Washington Post very recently published a review of his
latest publication, “We Were Eight Years in Power.”
The Washington
Post October 1,2017
“The Obama era’s faded hope”
The Washington
Post September 30, 2017
“Birthplace of anthem at center of NFL protest debate”
REFLECTIONS ON PUBLIC POLICY: COUNTY, STATE, AND NATION
Our County Council recently took the vote on legislation
introduced by Councilmembers Ball and Terrasa.
It was a bill that would have repealed the Tax Increment Financing (TIF)
approval that was passed earlier this year by a vote of four to one, Teresa
being the only one voting in opposition. This financing in the amount of
roughly $90,000,000 will go to one of the largest and most profitable
development entities in our nation, Howard Hughes Corporation. This is at the same that our Department of
Education’s free and reduced meals program, a leading indicator of poverty in
our nation, is growing rapidly, approaching 50% of the students in some of Columbia’s
schools. Pointing out and protesting the
numerous grave injustices at the federal level, does nothing to promote
economic justice at our local level of government. Living in one of the wealthiest counties in
the U.S. ,
we are abandoning the low-income families, particularly the kids.
Our Board of Education has received the Superintendent’s
proposed changes to the school district boundary lines. It is crucial to economic and social justice
that these lines be drawn democratically and serve to improve the economic mix
of the schools’ populations.
I recently attended a meeting of “Indivisible” in Howard. This is one of the progressive groups that
sprung up in the wake of our national election.
I am very impressed by their organizational skills and grasp of so many
issues, including social, economic, and environmental justice. One of the topics of this meeting was
protecting the security of our voting systems, which is gaining more attention
now in the face of Russia ’s
recent history. Having led a similar effort in the Maryland Legislature a few
years ago with great assistance from Johns Hopkins professor of Computer
Science, Avi Rubin, and having met with only partial success, I made a comment
during the recent meeting in Howard Co on this issue. In doing so, I described myself as “one of
the most radical members of the legislature”. After the meeting ended, a man
and woman approached me with expressions of deep concern on their faces and
said, “You shouldn’t disparage yourself like that by using a word like
radical.” I thanked them for their concern on my part, and then referred to
Google re this word. “Definition of radical – (especially of change or action)
relating to or affecting the fundamental nature…denoting or relating to the
roots of words.” They replied that they had thought it meant something along
the lines of hostile and irresponsible.
I suggested that they check out the base of the word. “Rad” means to go the root, as in radish.” It’s one of those words that we have allowed
the right wing to sabotage.
As a lit major, I love words.
So do I love people who are taking the time to get out and get involved
to save our nation and planet?
Guns: If what happened in
Las Vegas is not sufficient motivation for Congress and the state legislatures
to enact strong weapon control, I can’t even begin to imagine what would
Hurricanes: Puerto Rico
is a protectorate of our nation whose people are citizens of the U.S. just like we are and, therefore, equally
entitled to emergency services as we residents of Maryland and the other 49 states are. Clearly they have not been treated as equals.
REFLECTIONS ON OUR PLANET BEYOND THE UNITED STATES
In a recent TV interview with Ta-Nehisi Coates concerning his
latest book “We were eight years in power” to which I referred at the end of
the section above on Baltimore, My Home Town, the interviewer asked him what he
sees ahead for our nation. Ta-Nehisi
replied, unfortunately though without hostility “Chaos”.
Reading The Washington Post and other publications during the
past month, “chaos” tragically appears to apply to our planet as well.
“SAUDI ARABIA : In my recent reading of the Washington Post,
this is the only nation from which we received very positive news. Women in that nation will finally be allowed
to drive!
REFLECTIONS ON OUR UNIVERSE
This year our planet’s autumnal equinox occurred on September 22
at 4:02pm. When I checked Google for a
better understanding of this phenomenon, I was moved by the beautiful
description of the similarity between light and darkness both within us and
within the universe. That led me to
strengthen my resolve to limit my time before the TV now awash in “dark” news.
We already never turn on the TV before six, with the exception of weekend
baseball, basketball, or football for Lloyd.
I believe it’s very important to be aware of what’s going on in our
nation and planet. I also believe – or rather KNOW – that we can damage our
very souls by too much “sitting in front of the TV and watching,”
We decided to invite a few like-minded friends over to observe
and venerate the time when the sun crossed the equator, heading south. A few
moments before four o’clock we gathered on our back deck facing the sun. The clouds dispersed just in time for a super
quick glance through our sunglasses.
Some had brought a poem or story to read. Some spoke their own few words. Some remained quiet. Each reading helped us to “get it” at a
deeper level, the cycles of darkness and light in our universe and within
ourselves.
THE WASHINGTON
POST SEPTEMBER 28, 2017
“Gravitational wave from black hole collision is sensed in U.S. and Italy ”
“When two black holes merged 3.8 billion light-years away, their
violent union sent shock waves through space and time.”
…and it is not unusual for me to experience a month as an
extremely long time.
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I now end this message with a stronger than usual clear and deep
realization that everything, absolutely everything, is connected in our
universe.
“Pools of sorrow,
waves of joy
Are
drifting through my open mind
Possessing
and caressing me
Across the
Universe
~Lennon and
McCartney
Be
well and love life.
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